- Confidence emphasized that her father had always wished for complete privacy.
- Many Nigerians, unaware of Rufai’s illness, were stunned by his sudden death.
Confidence, one of Peter Rufai’s daughters, revealed that her late father chose to keep his illness private because he valued a quiet and discreet life.
According to NAN, Rufai, a member of the Super Eagles’ 1994 AFCON-winning squad, passed away on July 3. He was honoured alongside three other Nigerian sports icons at a ‘Night of Tributes’ organized by Segun Odegbami and sponsored by Air Peace Chairman, Allen Onyema, at the Nigerian Institute of International Affairs, Victoria Island.
Many Nigerians, unaware of Rufai’s illness, were stunned by his sudden death. Confidence emphasized that her father had always wished for complete privacy.
“To those who felt hurt by the secrecy, I apologise. My dad loved privacy. He truly enjoyed a quiet, reserved life.
“He didn’t want publicity about his condition. He would rather pass on peacefully than remain in the public eye because of illness.
“Honestly, he valued his dignity. He never sought public sympathy. Even in hardship, he preferred to remain silent and composed.
“My dad never bragged or sought attention. His sense of self-respect was deep. I see that trait reflected in myself,” Confidence said.
Speaking about Rufai’s patriotism, Confidence described him as a selfless Nigerian who gave everything to serve his country.
“When describing someone exceptional, words often fall short. Nigerians will judge him based on what they feel he earned.
“For me, describing my dad goes beyond words. He was a father figure not only to us but to many others.
“He often reminded us that his duty extended beyond family. He felt responsible for those less privileged than us.
“I cannot put a value on how Nigeria can honour him. His dedication to the country was beyond compensation,” she said.
Confidence also revealed that plans for Rufai’s burial are underway and would be announced soon.
“Some of us have followed in his sporting footsteps. My brothers are also involved. In time, more may come.
“My dad’s quiet nature runs in us. We prefer to keep things discreet. More will be revealed gradually.
“His burial date will soon be made public,” she said.
