BBNaija S10 August 23 recap: ‘3 fishes’ comment fight, Bedtime partner pick game, Tense exchanges, WanniXHandi and Flo party display

Day 28 in the Big Brother Naija Season 10 house was packed with fresh twists, emotional conversations, heated confrontations, and a Saturday party that set social media buzzing. From Dede’s bold “Bedtime Week” idea to multiple face-offs and attempted reconciliations, August 23 delivered everything fans crave — drama, strategy, romance, and intensity.

Bedtime Week: Dede’s Twist Changes the Game

In a move that surprised housemates, Dede introduced a game-changing idea called “Bedtime Week”. The concept was simple yet filled with potential drama: the girls would occupy one room and the guys another, while each night, a housemate would pick a bedmate to spend the night with.

Monday to Wednesday: Guys get the chance to choose which girl’s bed to sleep in.

Thursday: The power flips, and the ladies decide their partners, echoing a recoupling ceremony.

Friday: A “lucky dip” determines the pairings. If anyone refuses their pick, they spend the night alone in the alternate room.

This twist, set to begin immediately after the live eviction show, promises to spark curiosity, tension, and possibly new romantic entanglements. Fans already speculate on who will pick who, and how the dynamics might shake alliances inside the house.

Dede Opens Up to Joanna: “The House Hates Me”

One of the most emotional conversations of the night came when Dede confided in Joanna. Dede expressed frustration that while other housemates sleep in each other’s beds, cuddle, and even share kisses, her actions always seem to attract criticism. She insisted she’s unfairly targeted, especially after her friendship with Jason became the subject of house gossip.

Joanna offered perspective, suggested the backlash was linked to Jason’s fast moves early in the season. Still, Dede admitted feeling isolated.

Gigi and Denari: Loyalty Pacts and Kola’s Struggles

Another subplot unfolded between Gigi and Denari, as they discussed loyalty in the house. Gigi urged Denari to keep their friendship free from external drama, especially issues between him and Doris. Denari agreed, hinted at how relationships inside the house often come under unnecessary strain.

The two also spoke about Kola, who has been visibly down since his kiss with Isabella backfired. Gigi empathized with him, calling him a good-looking, educated man who felt played. Denari, however, criticized Kola for not stepping away earlier, argued that he allowed himself to be “led on.” Their exchange highlighted how the Isabella-Kola-Dede triangle continues to ripple across the house.

Mide and Dede on Tension with Isabella

Mide and Dede had a deep discussion about a certain housemate, presumed by viewers to be Isabella. Mide noted the negative energy between the two, while Dede admitted she hadn’t noticed the exact moment things soured. She felt targeted by house narratives, pointing out the hypocrisy of housemates who “follow people’s boyfriends and girlfriends” yet call her out for harmless friendships.

Koyin and Dede Reflect on Kola’s Kiss

The aftermath of Kola’s kiss with Isabella remains one of the season’s most controversial moments. In a candid chat, Koyin and Dede analyzed the situation.

Koyin described Kola as someone who doesn’t like “razz behavior” and usually makes careful choices, while Dede emphasized that the issue wasn’t the kiss itself but “the person he did it with.” They both agreed Kola is genuinely kind and a “people pleaser,” which explains why the kiss shocked everyone.

Dede made it clear she values her independence and doesn’t want her name tied to any “trio storyline.”

Saturday Night Party: DJ Flo vs. Wanni X Handi

The party was electrifying as Season 9 alumni DJ Flo and twins Wanni X Handi took over the turntables. Housemates danced the night away, but outside the house, fans were split on who owned the night.

Wanni X Handi: Their twin energy and fiery mixes got some fans hyped, but critics online rated their transitions as average. Loyal supporters defended them, insisting they remain “the biggest thing from last season.”

DJ Flo: She stole the spotlight with seamless transitions and crowd control. Many fans crowned her the highlight of the night, though some accused others of overhyping her to spite the twins.

The debate spilled into social media trends.

After-Party Drama: Confrontations and Attempted Reconciliations

A) Jason and Dede’s Emotional attempt to reconcile

Jason and Dede finally confronted their unresolved issues. Jason admitted to missing Dede despite anger and hurt, acknowledging the weight of their fallout. He explained that he needed time to process his feelings and take responsibility for his decisions, stressed that last week’s chaos wasn’t entirely Dede’s fault.

Dede, in turn, emphasized fairness, reminded Jason that he often reacted strongly to minor things and that she had consistently assured him of their friendship.

The conversation delved into the past, including the infamous kiss incident and other perceived betrayals. Jason clarified that while he was hurt, his bond with Dede ran deeper than surface mistakes. He pointed out that multiple incidents—including Koyin’s kiss with Sultana—happened simultaneously, underlined that his hurt wasn’t isolated.

Dede countered, highlighted that the imbalance in how their actions were perceived created tension, insisted that she should not be blamed for things outside her control. The exchange ended with mutual understanding: respect for boundaries, acknowledgment of mistakes, and recognition of the depth of their connection.

B) Imisi and Sultana: Emotional Strategy and Observations

Outside of Jason and Dede’s conversation, Imisi confronted Sultana about Jason’s on-and-off attention. Imisi wanted clarity on whether Sultana had feelings, but Sultana remained detached, stating she wasn’t emotionally invested and would instead observe how people revealed themselves.

Their discussion underscored the game’s tension between perception, manipulation, and genuine intent.

C) Jason Debriefs Friends: Boundaries and Clarity

Jason later shared his side of the conversation with Jae and Gigi. He explained that he needed Dede to recognize he was not comparable to others who had betrayed trust. He stressed that misunderstandings shouldn’t categorize him unfairly and emphasized the importance of maintaining composure on TV, rather than appearing as someone chasing after her.

Gigi acknowledged that this resolution was the final piece for Jason to regain mental clarity and emotional stability in the house.

D) Mide and Kola: Public vs Private Boundaries

Mide after failing to convince Bright to join the Bedtime partner pick game, say with Kola to discuss Bright’s reaction to her not kissing him during a wager presentation. Mide clarified that while there’s closeness between them at night, public displays were not part of her comfort zone. She stressed that her boundaries remained intact, even as relationships evolved inside the house.

E) Big Soso and Dede Clash: Full Breakdown

The conflict began when Mide approached Big Soso to understand why she had been giving Dede the cold shoulder. Big Soso explained that her frustration stemmed from Dede’s behavior around three male housemates, whom she believed Dede was “playing with” and even labeling as “fishes.” While Mide attempted to defend Dede, pointed out that the men themselves were not bothered, Big Soso maintained that, as the guys were like family to her, she needed to confirm their feelings firsthand before confronting Dede.

Big Soso first spoke with Koyin, seeking clarity on his relationship with Dede. Though Koyin insisted that his bond with Dede was purely platonic, Big Soso pressed further, questioned why he spent almost all his time with Dede, shared a bed with her, and effectively blocked Kola—who clearly had feelings for Dede—from getting close. Koyin remained unbothered, explained that he shared the bed simply because it was his assigned space and that he was not romantically involved with Dede.

He further emphasized that the “fish” label applied only to those with genuine romantic interest, distanced himself from any implication. He even referenced his life outside the house, asserted that he often turned down serious romantic advances, reinforced that he was confident in his own decisions and that Dede’s behavior should not concern him. Despite his attempt to deescalate the situation, Big Soso remained intent on clarifying the matter directly with Dede.

While this conversation took place, Mide went upstairs to inform Dede about the discussion, but Dede appeared unconcerned.

She questioned why others were so focused on labeling the men as “fishes” when the men themselves expressed no issue, demonstrated her detachment from external judgments. Mide reminded Dede that Big Soso preferred to address matters face-to-face, signaled the inevitability of a direct confrontation.

Soon after, Big Soso called Dede aside. She acknowledged that she might not have the right to police Dede’s interactions, but she felt compelled to express her concern because of prior statements Dede made to the housemates about having a boyfriend outside. Big Soso interpreted Dede’s current behavior as emotionally manipulative, claimed that it conflicted with the image Dede had projected. Her motivation was partly protective, rooted in her loyalty to the male housemates whom she considered like family.

Dede responded by asserting her independence and refusing to allow Soso’s judgment to influence her. She pointed out that she had not even noticed Soso’s cold shoulder until it was brought up, highlighted her focus on her own business rather than on others’ opinions. Dede emphasized that she had openly admitted to being self-focused upon entering the house and maintained that others, including Big Soso, had no authority over her choices.

She also accused Soso of spreading misinformation about her supposed relationships, framed her actions as misleading, and criticized Soso for a sense of entitlement.

Dede underscored the reality of the house: their primary goal was to compete for the prize, not to regulate each other’s interactions or enforce personal moral codes. She insisted that if Soso had an issue with her, the appropriate response was to maintain distance rather than interfere.

The disagreement quickly escalated into a heated argument, with both women aggressively asserting their positions. Dede repeatedly emphasized that Soso should keep her distance, while Big Soso accused Dede of moral laxity. The confrontation intensified, requiring Koyin to step in and remove Dede from the room to prevent further escalation. Despite Dede’s exit, Big Soso remained downstairs, visibly enraged. She continued verbally attacking Dede, targeted her hygiene and personal habits, and criticized the male housemates for enabling her behavior by allowing her access and attention.

August 23 in the BBNaija S10 house was nothing short of a dramatic spectacle, perfectly blending strategy, emotion, and entertainment.

Dede’s “Bedtime Week” twist set the stage for new alliances and romantic sparks, while intense confrontations — especially between Big Soso and Dede — kept viewers on edge.

Heartfelt conversations, such as Dede opening up to Joanna and Jason attempting closure, added emotional depth that fans crave, balancing the high-octane party energy with introspection.