A lady has sparked reactions online after opening up to her pastor about her frustration with dating as a church girl.
Speaking during a viral sermon, she explained that women in the church are often taught not to chase men but to wait for men to approach them.
However, she lamented that many church men are not making the first move, leaving several women worried as time goes by and age becomes a concern.
Expressing her frustration, she said,
“We are taught to wait for the man to come because we cannot go after a man. Now we are getting older, and time is not on our side.”
She went on to compare church men with men outside the church, noting that non-church men appear much bolder, even at a younger age.
According to her, it is common to see a 20-year-old confidently walk up to her and express interest, something she rarely experiences within the church.
“We are spiritual, we like Jesus, and it’s very difficult to drag these guys to church, but the church boys are not coming either,” she added.
Concluding her remarks, the lady asked the pastor what could be done to address the situation, especially since most of the men showing interest are not spiritually inclined.
Her comments have sparked debate online, with many women relating to her concerns and discussing how to strike a balance between faith, attraction, and relationships.
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