A Nigerian man has stirred debate online after sharing his strict rules for marriage, insisting that cohabitation is non-negotiable before tying the knot.
The post, published on X (formerly Twitter), quickly went viral as he outlined why living together is essential for him and how it helps him evaluate a partner’s true character.
Cohabitation As A Marriage Test
In the post, he stated, “Cohabitation is a must for me.” He added that he would never marry a woman unless she lived under his roof for six months to one year.
He explained that this period allows him to see the real version of a partner, beyond weekends, visits, or the “dating mask.”
Daily Habits And Personal Standards
The man emphasised the importance of daily routines, noting that sleeping past 7 a.m. is a “hard red flag.” He described laziness as a deal-breaker that could “ruin a home.”
He said living together provides insight into responsibility, discipline, and consistency in everyday life.
Sexual Compatibility And Expectations
The post also addressed sexual compatibility. He said, “I love sex and I expect us to have sex at least twice in a week,” adding that he does not want a partner who frequently says, “I’m not in the mood” or “I don’t feel like.”
Handling Conflict And Authority
He highlighted observing how a partner manages disagreements or conflict, questioning whether she might stop cooking, lock him out, or challenge his authority when angry.
According to him, cohabitation exposes behaviours that short visits and sweet talk often conceal.
