A lady has taken to social media to question the audacity of someone attending a family meeting simply because their mother is a third wife.
According to her, she was shocked that the person not only decided to go but also actively participated in the discussions.
Lady questions ‘audacity’ of family member
“Your mother is a third wife, they invited you to a family meeting and you decided to go. Where did you buy your audacity from?” she asked, expressing disbelief at the situation.
She argued that attending such a meeting shows a boldness that she could hardly understand.
The lady explained that in her view, family meetings are traditionally spaces where first and second wives’ children take precedence, and outsiders or those from later marriages are not typically expected to speak.
She described the behaviour as audacious and beyond what she considered acceptable in family dynamics.
She further added that witnessing someone openly express themselves in a setting where they are technically a junior or less prominent family member made her question boundaries and respect within families.
Her post sparked an immediate debate online about family hierarchy, cultural norms, and generational attitudes.
Social media reactions:
@taiwoabkubakar commented: “So, because someone’s mother is third wife it’s a crime for him/her to attend family meeting. How these gen z think sometimes only God knows.”
@Ezeifeka_Obinna commented: “Does family end on 1st and 2nd wife alone?”
@temynna commented: “Na crime to be third wife pikin?”
@Juliusnuhu1 commented: Some people self.
@Bamrap commented: “It is obvious that the man is not alive….cos if he is she can’t be saying the rubbish she’s saying.”
@Xavier_D.Ace commented: “This one fit be second wife pikin.”
Watch the video below…
“Your mother is a third wife, they invited you to a family meeting and you decided to go. Where did you buy your audacity from?” – Lady pic.twitter.com/3NqkM3nrLd
— TENIOLA (@Teeniiola) January 12, 2026
